Resources

Here you’ll find a selection of trusted resources and recommendations to help you better understand mental health, trauma, and emotional wellbeing. Feel free to explore at your own pace. These are not a replacement for therapy, but they may offer support in the meantime.

Do my experiences ‘count’ as trauma?

💬 “It wasn’t that bad”
💬 “Other people have gone through worse”
💬 “I was so young when it happened - I should be over this by now!”

These are all things t

🧠 PSA: Self-compassion is not self-indulgence.

What do you think of when you hear the words “self-compassion”?

For many of us, we have learned throughout our lives that being kind to ourselves is “selfish”, “weak&rdq

What do I do when I feel overwhelmed?

We all experience this at times - whether it's panic, stress, worrying thoughts, or intrusive memories - it can feel like our thoughts and feelings "take over"!

The "5,4,3,2,1" technique al

Because we all need a little reminder sometimes - Happy Friday! ☕️☀️

“Do I really need therapy?”
It’s a question I hear often — and one I think is worth exploring with honesty and compassion.

Sometimes we hesitate to reach out for support because:
— we think we should be able to cope on

👋 Hello and welcome

I’m Dr Danielle Kerley, a Clinical Psychologist based in Surrey. I support people who are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, anxious, or low — especially those navigating the impact of difficult life experiences or relation

You can also follow me on Instagram @drdaniellekerley to stay up-to-date with news from my practice, as well as insights & tips related to mental health and wellbeing.

P.S. I will continue to update these resources - please do check back in from time-to-time to see what else is available. You can also get in touch here if there’s something you’d like to see on my resources page!

I am unable to provide urgent or emergency mental health care. If you require urgent mental health support, or are worried about your own - or someone else’s - safety, please reach out to one or more of the organisations listed here:

Crisis Support Services

Samaritans - a confidential, free, listening service available 24/7. You can call Samaritans on 116 123.
NHS 111 - Call 111 on any landline or mobile. Select option 2. A trained staff member will be on hand to discuss your concerns and direct you to suitable services.
SHOUT text service - If you prefer not to speak over the phone, you can text the word “SHOUT” to 85258 to speak to a trained advisor. This service is available 24/7.
PAPYRUS (Prevention of Young Suicide) Hopeline - Providing support for young people and carers of young people. You can call the confidential Hopeline for free, 24/7 on 0800 068 4141.
In an emergency, always call 999 or attend your local A&E department.

Book Recommendations

The Body Keeps the Score

BESSEL VAN DER KOLK
A compassionate look at how overwhelming or painful experiences can shape our minds and bodies — and how we can begin to feel safe, connected, and whole again.

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Self-Compassion

KRISTIN NEFF, PHD
A gentle, research-based guide to being kinder to yourself — especially helpful if you tend to be self-critical or have experienced difficult relationships.

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Mental Health Microgains

DR EMMA COTTERILL & DR TARA QUINN-CIRILLO
A handy book providing 50, 5-minute tips based on evidence-based psychological concepts like mindfulness, compassion and grounding to support you in managing your wellbeing.

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How to Help Someone with Depression

DR EMMA COTTERILL
A helpful guide to support friends, colleagues, and family of someone who is living with depression. It provides tips on how to support your loved one, as well as how to look after yourself.

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The Happiness Trap

RUSS HARRIS
A practical guide based on ACT, this book helps you let go of the pressure to “feel happy” and instead focus on what truly matters to you — even when life feels difficult.

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